“ As a person that is anxious we dislike ambiguity, and appreciate when there’s more clarity in dating. Including, whenever my boyfriend asked us to be their gf, we’d a conversation that is short just just just what that entailed for every single of us,” she states.
Interestingly, although a lot of relationship anarchists state that RA varies from hierarchical poly since it frees them through the “relationship escalator,” Liz claims that hierarchical polyamory allows her to please feel free as a result too: “I don’t expect anyone to come right into a relationship and immediately commit to cohabitating, wedding, and so on.”